Friday, March 30, 2012

To Each Her Own Pace

I've been thinking a lot about my place in life at the moment (which is extremely stable, I might add). I've got a wonderful job. I have wonderful family and friends who support me. I have a lovely home in a fun city. Life is grand. Even though life is more stable than it has been in the past… 7 years or so, I still find myself nervous and worrying. What happens if I meet someone? What happens if I get married? What if I decide to buy a house? What if I change jobs? What if I don't find a man? I am ready for any of the above? Is anyone ever ready?

My advice to myself: Live in this moment and be happy. My second piece of advice for myself (and all my other friends who find themselves feeling the same way): Don't worry about what other people are doing. So you have friends getting married? Big deal. Friends having babies? Big deal. Live at your own pace.

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